What Does Your Kitchen (or Lack Thereof) Say about You?

“Still Life #30,” from the MoMA Counter Space exhibit

Notions of what constitutes a “kitchen” vary widely, especially when you’re in college. I never gave it much thought until I visited the Museum of Modern Art’s Counter Space: Design and the Modern Kitchen exhibit this weekend. As I saw how people’s views of the kitchen — as the heart of the home, a prison of domesticity and a status symbol, to name a few — changed across eras (and geographic locations), my thoughts soon turned to how these rooms change just during our lifetimes.

Who says a woman’s place is in the kitchen? Image from the film “Too Young to Marry,” 1931.

During the years I worked as an editor at my campus newspaper, my kitchen consisted of a microwave, a dented refrigerator that was often overflowing with mysterious, mold-tinged Tupperware, and a metal cupboard that housed my essentials: pretzels, peanut butter and canned soup. It was a place of utility, where I fueled myself before chasing down stories and designing the next day’s newspages, much like the European kitchens of the 1930s, which prided themselves on being spare, efficient, meal-preparing machines.

It’s a kitchen in a box! Spazio Vivo (Living Space) Mobile kitchen unit, 1968. On display at MoMA until May 2nd.

That collegiate pseudo-kitchen was nothing like the one in my parents’ house — a place filled with laughter, where my friends hung out as we waited for cookies to bake, and where my family would gather to discuss how their day went. That kitchen was the hub of activity in my home, forming many of my fondest, flour-dusted memories.

This feels about the size of my current kitchen. “Kichka’s Breakfast I,” 1960, part of the “Counter Space” exhibit at MoMA.

Even now that I’ve graduated, Manhattan life hardly allows for a spacious place to rest my spoonula. Though I don’t have a gleaming, marble-topped island or even enough room for two people to cook together, I adore that space, because it’s where I make sense of the world. As I cream butter to make a fudgy batch of brownies or roll pizza dough using a water bottle, my mind sorts through whatever’s bothering me, formulating theories, making plans and setting goals while my hands are kept busy. That’s my kitchen today: part think tank, part laboratory — completely cathartic. What’s yours like?